I've made a ton of mistakes myself (just read my thread). The reality is that we cannot control them. They are going to do whatever they want to do. They will justify all of there actions. One day she will wake up buddy..one day...I have a funny feeling it will be just as you are about to embark on your next R - I think it is then that they realize what they had.
In terms of the religious figures...my wife told me the other day that she prays for me every day. As hard as it is to believe since she is with another, I actually do believe her. We all fall short in God eyes so who are we to judge. We can only live by our own convictions. That is all. Pray for her. Wish her well and then go find yourself a wonderful woman that will love the man that you are.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
