Glad to hear your FIL wants the M to last. Remember, however, it is "his" daughter and he will support her happiness before he takes sides with you.

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It sounds exciting!


JMHO, but I don't know if I would say that if you are against her moving out and getting a D. I believe in showing a PMA, but I think this is kind of fake. Unless you are going to drop the rope and act as if none of it bothers you and you're moving on, I would leave that last part off. Do you think she would not tell you about the house if you didn't ask bring up the emails?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!