I am the opposite..father is the mick..mom off the boat.

I haven't connected with anyone on FB for the same reasons you mentioned. My H got off of FB once I exposed his A. He was never really into it in the first place....my company has a network setup..so I was always careful about what I post...and I untag pics and delete wall posts that my friends 'think' are funny to post. Nobody at work knows about my M sitch so I am on high alert to make sure nobody writes something related to my M. I still wear my 'decoy' ring to work.

TGIF.