Hey CW, believe it or not, I think he can "bully" me into filing! But I'm just going to do a sep agreement, the actual D I will not do. Actually, the one who files for D is the one who pays for it here, so maybe doesn't file because it saves him money and he's not getting remarried now so why do it (from his perspective) even though he does not seem to have any real intention of coming home, at least not now.
