I am hopeful that my friend's sister will step up and take care of her. The 11 year old really needs a female influence and her Aunt would be a good option for her. Unfortunately she does not live in the area here, but is only about 90 miles away so that isn't too bad. Not that her brothers don't love her, they just can't provide her the kindof direction and guidance that she needs. Her absent father lives 3000 miles away and it would be a huge mistake for him to swoop in after 7 years and take her from the surroundings she is familiar with and the friends that she has in this area. You are right, it is a tragedy.