Just seem to need to come back here....Shiny I needed to hear that..I know I have to face reality...and while he is feeling so great, I also see that he is afraid to try again...who isn't....a year ago he told our kids that he needed to find himself..that we needed to get to know each other again..when he told people of the s, he said that we are going to try and work on it..so a part of me has some anger, as we have not worked on our m this past year..we have worked on ourselves..and that has been good..so I do think I need to take a few deep breaths..
I think of litle things he said...he could never really bring himself to say divorce..but rather looking into taking care of it legally...so is he cushioning it for me, or deep down he really is not sure, but sees this as an only way to "solve" things?. I hope I am not coming across as going into deniel..I know full well where things are...I have learned from all you guys and the books, that he does seem to fit the mlc syndrome and he has not had the same resources to rely on for support or advice.
SO...again deep breaths........patience...but at least i know how he is feeling a year later...does not mean the end ..and I will survive..
