I believe that most people will experience a transitional crisis at some point in their life. Maybe more than once. Perhaps some have lumped it together and labeled it MLC when it does not fall during "midlife" at all. Maybe that is why we see such wide ranges in the years.
When I first came on the board, I referred to myself as being in MLC and I did have the signs, but I think my personal problems were more complexed (due to medications, etc.), IDK. I feel like my H & I have experienced transitional crisis as a couple and as individuals through the years.
Anyone reading this needs to be warned that you probably will not remain the same b/c life doesn't remain the same for us. It's all those blasted "changes" that we have to adjust to.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
