IDK, there was that time Robx, Puppy, McQueen and I were in Juarez. McQueen starts hitting the tequila and singing "Mexican Blackird" at the top of his lungs. He dissappears for a few mintues and and comes out saying, "Mira aqui, yo soy una transvestiva." Not exactly saying he looked good or anything but Puppy couldn't stop commenting on how fetching he looked, Rob is all all over him about his cr*p behavior and I just ordered another round....... Made "The Hangover" look tame.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!