How to approach W about OM

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The OM had no issue speaking with me when I called him. His admissions are he should had never started to talk to her about personal issues and let it go on as long. He would like for me to believe that he is avoiding her as much as he can. He tells me he is sick of walking on eggshells at work and this whole situation has caused more problems then it was ever worth. He expressed to me several times how much his son means to him and the thought of losing his family is not something he can bare.

My W on the other hand does not see what she was/is doing would be considered an A. She think she was "talking to someone who listens" and made a friend. My wife has no friends to be honest as mentioned in a previous post we had done everything together for a very long time besides our work places we had no social life (more so her). I have a group of friends who I hung around with, I play sports as well. She had work and then her home life. So when her only friend (me) hurt her she desperately seek someone else to talk to and vent and she ended up finding it in him since he could relate to her situation.