Need a Plan for My Marriage

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I hope someone is here tonight to help!

Wife came home at 9:43 pm tonight. I asked where she was, and she said, "her boss (Mr. Tano) bought pizza. I told she could have at least called to let me know. I told her I will call her boss next time, and I would not tolerate an open R with the OM. I told her I want to see her pay statement with overtime. She mentioned that she wanted her own cell phone, or the other phones in her name, and I told her "no." I would not do that so she could talk to the OM. She said she can save money that way, up to 15%. She said then she will get a divorce, and that she would get 100% custody of the kids, and that I would not be paid alimony or given child support. I told her "nope" that is not going to happen. She said, "my attorney said it would." I told her she needs another attorney. I told her that I did not want a D and never have, but she has to do what she has to do. I told her we could not have a chance in our marriage with the OM there. She said "I have not been in love with you for years". I said, "our marriage can be saved still." She brought up the job and that I would not get the kids without out one. I told her we will leave that to the judge. She said, "that she had been talking to attorney's and there is no chance I will get the kids. She said, "I have the money for an attorney and you don't because you have no job." I told her that kids will be devastated by this. She said, "she could not live like this anymore. I told she made the choice to put the OM ahead of the kids and me. She did not seem that concerned. I could tell she was a little worried, and she would talk to her attorney again tomorrow. I told her go ahead.

I am a little concerned with the money. I admit I was a little nervous, but I stood my ground. It did no feel good at all. It has been a tough night, but I am doing okay I guess.

I am waiting for your responses everyone. I need a little encouragement if anyone sees my post please! Any advice needed on inexpensive attornies. Please help!!!