Jamie, we're so much alike...hint hint haha - I know exactly what you mean by being shy and people thinking you're stuck up - that's me. I did try to think of her as my neighbor who brought a pie over I guess I could treat her that way but I really don't think she'd want to have sex with me...LOL I kill myself sometimes.
mind, I don't know what's changed, maybe the atmosphere here is affecting me. I'm thinking about this stuff a lot more than I was initially. I'm questioning if my behavior is pushing her further away or not. If I go back to my bahvior a few days ago in a nutshell it was 'I don't care what she thinks, does or feel anymore' and that would be stand-offish to her. It would mean I won't talk to her unless i had to regarding DD or something important like taxes etc or unless she asked me. But is that helping me or not? Should I continue that behavior?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
haha - I know exactly what you mean by being shy and people thinking you're stuck up - that's me. I did try to think of her as my neighbor who brought a pie over I guess I could treat her that way but I really don't think she'd want to have sex with me...LOL I kill myself sometimes.
