Katie- I'd like to know more about your history? How long you've been together, how this all started, kids or no, etc? Or if it's in a thread already, maybe you can point me to it?
My H just said to me today that my behavior is confusing him. He stopped just short of asking "why are you so happy?" But I can tell it's getting to him, so I can relate to some of the things you're saying. But it's hard to comment when I don't know all the details--
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.