This is good advice. Another thing I would tell you is to never bad mouth his parents.My mistake was trying to get my H to see his mother's scheming way and it just made me look bad and he would feel sorry for her. I guess he thought "she" was the victim! It is so hard not to try to point things out to him, but try not to say anything about them and just smile & wave to them and stay away as much as you can
unfortunately, i've already done that a few times.
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I know how you feel about the sex. It affected me so badly! But if that's what he is M to you for....then hey, use it to your advantage! Make coming home the most exciting part of his day.
this wouldn't work for me. h has already checked out. our sex life is non-existent now.
great. i'm back to being mad again. what an emotional rollercoaster.
