Kissak, I just wanted to stop by and thank you and all your friends here for your journaling and comments. I am just seeing my XH peek out of the tunnel (he is back in again tho) for the first time in 3.5 years. I am just so curious how to keep him peeking out until he is willing to stay out for good. I realize that not all Rs can turn out but I am really hoping that we can do it. I am wondering how you got your H into counseling? Did he go on his own? I think mine would really benefit to deal with his unadmitted depression/MLC/R issues. Any advice you have for starting the process would be greatly appreciated. Best wishes to you! FP
Trust in yourself...you are the only one that can guide your future...
Me-28 X-30 QLC-just separated from OW after 3 yrs M-3yrs Tog-8yrs D-3yrs Bomb-8/5/06