AMEN TO THAT! It is completely different when you are single then when you are in love with someone. Absolutely miserable.
LDrs, for the most part, don't (or can't) understand what it is like to be in our situation. For them, it seems like sex/physical intimacy is like a basket. Something that they can carry around or put down at will. They seem to feel like our wanting sex is like us wanting them to carry our baskets around for us. For us it is completely different. Sex/physical intimacy is like an internal organ. It is not a heart or a brain but more like a stomach. It is part of us. We can't just turn it off because it is not conveinent. We can't just put it down and walk away from it.