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so when do you plan on boxing up her things,
you're a man, men have plans, get one in place,
execute the plan and then we can discuss when you send her a text asking when she's coming to pick up her things because you had them boxed up and put in the garage to make it easier for her to get her stuff ;-)

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You let that deter you???

To late now...

If you had been following my thread you would know I choose to end it...

I took back control and called his bluff so away to D land we go. wink

And now over a year later he has played the "I don't know if this is what I really truly want card" sick


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Fergie ~

Sorry for the T/J however Rob won't visit my thread so I have to hunt him down wherever he is hanging wink

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Fergie! AWESOME! WTG! I feel like a proud mother! LoL


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After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

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Hey, Fergie! How was practice?


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I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

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Hey, Fergie! How was practice?
Thank you for asking, mindfull.
Practice was "meh". Pipe major was in a bad mood. Not everyone showed up. I thought the band tuning was way sharp, which bums me out. However, I picked up a new student and gave him a lesson. He will start officially on Monday. He has had a bad experience with a previous piping teacher and he said he could tell I was very patient. But when it comes to my D sitch, I feel anything but.

I really love the guys in the group, though. They have been super supportive of me. I was really surprised at that. You really find out who your friends are at times like these.

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Fergie! AWESOME! WTG! I feel like a proud mother! LoL
Thank you. I released the awesome. I could clearly hear sniffles on the other end. Not sure what, if anything, that means. I guess I'll find out more tomorrow (W has IC) or Monday (I have IC) about what happens next. If there is any future MC sessions planned. I left that completely up to her.
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so when do you plan on boxing up her things,
you're a man, men have plans, get one in place,
execute the plan and then we can discuss when you send her a text asking when she's coming to pick up her things because you had them boxed up and put in the garage to make it easier for her to get her stuff ;-)
I am collecting boxes right now and making an inventory on what needs moving. I wish I had all weekend to do it. It will probably take about three days. And I can't do it Saturday. My family is taking me out for my birthday. I guess I didn't mention my 40th birthday is next week! It probably won't come up, but what do I do if she wants to do something for my birthday?

My plan is to get started and have a firm plan by Sunday.

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then we can discuss when you send her a text
I will definitely keep you in the loop and not jump the gun.

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I have the similar issue. My W birthday as well. I would like to do nothing or maybe a shoe box filled with coal. Lol. I won't do that.
I will get a generic card signed by kids and I, this was advised on here for valentines day. No I love u on the card. A small gift from the kids. This is tough I know.
Be cool calm and attractive at all times. If you want to save your marriage. Detach


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I have the similar issue. My W birthday as well. I would like to do nothing or maybe a shoe box filled with coal. Lol. I won't do that.
I will get a generic card signed by kids and I, this was advised on here for valentines day. No I love u on the card. A small gift from the kids. This is tough I know.
Be cool calm and attractive at all times. If you want to save your marriage. Detach
Sooo... turn down any offers at getting together?

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