You are doing very good. You don't give in. but I think it's time to take it one step further. Tel him if he can't drop off the check when it is his visit time, then he can start mailing it. There is no reason for him to hand deliver his CS check. he can put it in the mail to have it arrive on the due date like the rest of the world.
SORRY GabbyMom and S2, but I say "screw the mail". Have it automatically deducted and put into your account on a given day every month. Period. Stop this nonsense and preventable drama. It's insane to put up with it --don't get sucked in. At the very least, tell him this is the last time you'll accept it late and he is in NO position to insist you be present for his personal OFF SCHEDULE visit and check drop off. Screw that!! I"m sorry but the only thing crazier than this pathetic man's self centered crazy ways, is allowing it....
Your exH's head is soooo big it's going to explode. None of his business whether or not you are "that" busy. He can't be "that busy" that he can see his daughter for like 10 min a week.
He is out of control and needs to realize this word does not revolve around him and his schedule. I would seriously tell him to mail the check. It is very simple. Come see your baby when your visiting hours are and put the check in the mail. The end. He is like a friggin todder.
At least toddlers are not evil. Your h is close to that, in my eyes. I'm sorry to sound so harsh but he's got to win the "loser" award of late. You deserve so much more from life. He is only suffering the consequences of what he has done.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
