Ic also advised on the vacation I am taking just me and the kids. I told my wife I didn't want her to come to the trip if she wasn't going to work on us. Ic tells me I was wrong and that i should not have made it about me. That I should tell my W that she is free to come if she wants to because it's about the kids. My W response to me was that she would think about it.
My response will be the same either way. "k". Lol.

Somebody posted some where to imagine that aliens kid napped the W. How good is that. Lol

M 43 W 43
S15 S 12 D 10
ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009)
Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010.
Sep as of 07/14/2010
W moving out 07/31/2010
No OM confirmed ( yet)