My ic advised that I do not separate accounts etc. She indicated that if you want your marriage to work your not giving your wife the right message. I am to leave everything as is but if W wants to do that then you agree. Let her do it.
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)
