What you have to say sounds great but wouldn't that be talking to a sane, level headed person?
he's not a crazy person, he's just confused and messed up.
AND because your speaking to a man, where that species HATES to be told what to do, it is always best to start off asking them what they think first. then follow it up with as I said. if he doesn't say something you like, then tell him what you feel should happen and ask him if he can do that, and if he cannot, then tell him your boundary, whatever that might be.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."