My sex life was fine. I have done the "dating around and hooking up thing" and I have also had a few long term relationships (lasting from one year to five years). I have also gone for long periods of time just reflecting on myself and intentionally not having sex or dating anyone.
I have never been "suicidal" about anything...and I never will be.
I definitely can keep a good "grip" on things but just getting off is not what drives me (although it is certainly part of it).
