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She makes killer pies and this one was no different. I thought about telling her how good it was but I didn't. Should I have?


well, I don't see any reason not to tell her if you really think that. just say that... that pie was awesome, thanks! you just don't want to sound needy or pleading, or be stoic or mad, IMHO you want to sound like you are positive and are enjoying your life!

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really am not sure how to act around her, I think she probably sees me as if I'm angry at her. Quite frankly I fight with the decision of whether or not I want to reconcile. I worry that she won't change and she'll keep fleeing whenever she wants to. I'm confused.


again, just look like your enjoying life. I think you could start practice talking to people. are you normally the type that doesn't go up to someone?


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."