Let me say that my wife and I had been house hunting since late last summer. After our fallout, she continued the search on her own. The crazy thing is that she has used our SHARED email account to communicate with our real estate agent. So, after our fallout I asked if she wanted me to come look at one particular house with her and she said 'no.' So, I took myself out of the loop. Oh, let me just clarify that her father is footing the bill. So, she has spent the past month continuing the search and even telling the agent that she'd rather build on a site. I stay out of the discussions even though I see 90% of the correspondences. So, tonight she's in a good mood. She says she bought ingredients to make mushroom risotto and asked if I wanted to have that for dinner. I suggested getting Indian food but said if you want to make the risotto I will have it and I am sure it will be great. She opted for Indian and said she can make it another night. Not typical of her to be so concerned and forthcoming about what we are going to share for dinner. Then I check my email and I see an email from our R/E agent with a subject that says "Congratulations." An offer she made on a house was accepted. Did she say anything to me? Nope. Did I say anything about it? Nope. I am waiting for her to tell me the good news. If she can't say anything by the time I leave for work tomorrow (I work for her father, BTW) then he and I will have a convo. SO F'ING BIZZARE! She's all happy and ready to have me fetch dinner but she can't find a way to say she bought a new house. I will confront her with it tomorrow but I am really getting confused even more. I think she just doesn't know how to say it b/c she KNOWS I've read our emails. But if she made a deal, I think it's her job to say something. Can a new home force a separation? Like, OK, me and the kids are moving and you are not coming with us. Ummm, that I think would be called kidnapping. I know she saw her therapist today. I just don't know what her deal is anymore. As I have always said, she's is a poor communicator of her feelings, so this is something that has got to be bothering her that I am silent. But yet she's seemingly warmer and friendlier to me at the same time. My wife is not a vindictive person at all. I just wish I knew what planet the aliens are from that took her. Worst case I am going to walk into her dad's office tomorrow, shut the door and ask him what the hell is going on since my WIFE can't open her mouth.
