Do you know what my MLCers "friends" say to my H, especially the ones who were WASs themselves? Don't worry about it, this is YOUR LIFE! Don't go back to her. There are so many cute and younger and easier things around here. And about the kids... don't worry, kids grow up no matter what you do. It's like by doing so he also validates THEIR decisions and wrongs from long ago. And so they say it's OK, so he thinks it's OK too. Does anyone here have a MLCer who hangs around other MLCers?