Snodderly, do you really think it's 50:50? That seems high. Also, my H seems to be just fine on his own out there, not dependant on a specific OW. He's not emotional, never cries. I don't know what it would take for him to come back, he's successful, probably looking forward to the next 20 years of fun fun fun. Why not? He did the wife and kids thing, and seems to have extracted himself from it just fine. He tells me to be more introverted, more extroverted, more successful, less successful, more intimate, less intimate... and now he can have them all... out there. I hate this!!!
