Thanks to all that posted. Lots of good thoughts here. I still have a gut feeling that there is something more going on with my W than what she is saying but I don't think that she even knows what it is. It's like over the last year, someone had flipped a switch and my W changed from a happy caring family person to this new woman whom is not as caring about the things that she was. Money is tight for both of us. We both lost good paying jobs with in a month of each other two years ago. She is back to her previous wage but I'm at about 2/3s of what I had been making so one of us leaving the family home could mean we have to sell. I have NO intentions of having an A. I have my kids to take care of and between that and work, who has time to? I have many questions that won't get answered right now, is there something with the deceased husband, MLC or is she truly sick of me? I don't know. -Lost Dad.
Me 44 Her BIG 40 D 13 D 11 S 9 M'd 14yrs not in love bomb Sept 09 Wanting Separation Jan 10 Me trying to DB I don't hate my wife. I hate what she is doing.
