I don't know which is worse -- H filing or NOT! My H won't file. Then I have to start the paperwork or I have no support or anything, and then it is MY FAULT that the marriage progresses to D!! And I don't want a D!!!
It is sad that he doesn't see the kids too much, I think this is supposed to be good for them. But when they are gone for and I am alone then that is not very nice either. They are not at home because he won't come home. He wants them, just not me. That feels really rotten.
My H is being "disney land Dad", so they have an amazing time with him, then have to come home to homework, school, chores, etc. Great!
