Help! I've been struggling for 2 years and don't

[Eunicetiger]

Thanks for the words of wisdom. No offense at all. I know I need to b more confident and self-assured. I love holding my wife and I guess when things got bad, I tried to "hold" on even more. But I love her so much, I will do what is necessary for however long to get her outta this fog she's in.

At what point do I ask her out for coffee or a date? Or do I never do that? Do I wait indefinitely for her to ask me??