DU if you need to communicate with him about legal issues do it via e-mail not on the phone, that will keep the emotions out of it and will be much easier on you.
I know its difficult right now, once the legal stuff is sorted out you will feel better again.((((hugs))))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO