Mila...yes, it is kinda funny! And will have to spell it out!
SA...sorry to heard that your H might be filing too! I believe what snodderly says. I do think he has the guilt...I think that is why he did a no show at grandson's party and also why he has not told ANYONE except his friend and maybe a couple of guys at work (OW is actually the one going around telling people about them)and about our separation and to my knowledge, he has not told his friend yet that we are getting a D. I am FB friends with her and she has not mentioned it in our convo's. And, I am pretty sure that he is using all of this OT as an excuse to not spend much time with the kids. I have no idea if OW is pushing...before H left, he said that she was pressuring him to make a decision so it is possible...but it is still his decision to go thru with it!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing