Really, you think so? I know my husband and I know that you guys know a broad range of similiar situations but not everyone is always having an affair if they say those things either. I am not dismissing that is the case all the time but I don't think it automatically means it either. I am not sticking up for him I am just saying that each of us knows our husbands better then anyone on this board that hasn't been in our marriage like we have so I thank you for your advice and will take that into my thoughts.
