So you see what is working? Now the trick is to continue doing what works. You even sound so much more attractive now than you did in the beginning.
Listen, there are some women who just don't like to be smothered. I am one of those women. I don't mean to offend, but if you had replaced your name with the W and your W's with the man....how would it sound? Read it and see.
I would be willing to bet the reason your W has wanted to S so many times is b/c of your smothering ways. Don't you see how she responds to you when you make her chase you?
Let that be your inspiration to keep doing the good work. She will be all over you if you just won't pursue.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!