OP...am not sure. They are still upset about H not showing up at grandson's birthday party...
Side note, got a letter from my L that H has not withdrawn the D so looks like I will be getting my answer ready next week as it has to be presented by 4/3.
Also, came home to a message from that divorced man that called asking about walking with him. Looks like I am going to have to put it another way for him. The kids were the ones that found the message on the machine...great....
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Also, came home to a message from that divorced man that called asking about walking with him. Looks like I am going to have to put it another way for him. The kids were the ones that found the message on the machine...great....
It's funny, but it's not... I guess you will have to spell it out for him. I don't know anything about the "dating game", been out of it for decades now, so no advice from me how to let him down gently.
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CW, rather persistent isn't he? Just tell him to 'take a hike', without you.
Snodderly said that the MLCer's that file right away are the ones who have a lot of guilt over it. I know that doesn't help matters any. Do you think ow is pushing for it?
Mila...yes, it is kinda funny! And will have to spell it out!
SA...sorry to heard that your H might be filing too! I believe what snodderly says. I do think he has the guilt...I think that is why he did a no show at grandson's party and also why he has not told ANYONE except his friend and maybe a couple of guys at work (OW is actually the one going around telling people about them)and about our separation and to my knowledge, he has not told his friend yet that we are getting a D. I am FB friends with her and she has not mentioned it in our convo's. And, I am pretty sure that he is using all of this OT as an excuse to not spend much time with the kids. I have no idea if OW is pushing...before H left, he said that she was pressuring him to make a decision so it is possible...but it is still his decision to go thru with it!
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Needing to vent...didn't have time this morning to check to see if H had deposited the usual amount of money. He called telling me he brought the dog home from the vet and wanted to know what the kids plans were this weekend etc. All nice and cheerful and so was I.
I just get done checking the bank and he deposited $150 less than normal. For those following my thread, a couple of weeks ago, I had mentioned wanting to talk to H about how this divorce is going to affect our finances and I decided not to. WHY can he not call me and forewarn me about this??? What is he doing with ALL of his money? It is not paying his hot rod and mc payments...they are still past due balances.
I WANT to call him tomorrow and ask if we can meet and talk but I just don't know. I have an appt with my L on Monday...maybe I should wait and let her handle it but how long does that take?
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(((CW))) Not fair that you have to worry about money on top of everything else. I hope this gets resolved ASAP.
PS Care to join the 3 things bandwagon?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
