Just thought I would post what I feel today. After hearing the news about Jesse James and Sandra Bullock (always been a fan of Sandra) - I thought about what was said about her hooking up with a "bad boy" - if you are with someone that is a bad boy/bad girl then you will have a bad relationship. And if you are with someone that is a good boy/good girl then you will have a good relationship (for the most part). Hmm, kinda makes sense doesn't it? So it got me thinking about who I might end up with - will this new person cheat on me? Will I? After going through it one time, I can say that I do not wish in a million years to have to go through that again. Whenever I hear about other couples going through an affair - I cringe. And then there's the question - why do they do it in the first place? (I kinda know why - that was a rhetorical question) If I am with someone that is not a habitual cheater (ie: a normal person), and we work on keeping the relationship healthy - then there is no reason to cheat if both people are are doing what they need to be doing, right?

Anyways - just thought I'd get it off my chest.


~Sol

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Single Dad, and luvin it!
~ Happiness is a state of mind ~