So what do you think about this? It could mean another whole year before he comes home because he would have to break a lease, if he signed a year long lease. It is good that he is starting to get some responsibility and have a lease in his name instead of rooming with friends, but what do you think? I am sure this is super frustrating since he is making progress and things are going well, but then this kind of says "not wanting to be the full-time family guy any time soon". I really feel for you.
Take some time to process how you do feel and now with H already moved maybe the surgery date can move up. That could be the silver lining to this dark cloud. ...trying...
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