OTOH, when she is with your STBX, you can look at it as a chance for your D to learn natural consequences regarding getting cold due to not being dressed properly.
That's what bothers me, she's a kid and can't be expected to make the right decisions for herself. It's our responsibility as parents to do what's best for her.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again