It's really sweet of you girls (Mind, ST, FM, Jamie et al.) to say those kind words and empathize. We're both bad with empathizing. I took her for granted for doing all the house chores that I have to do now. How sad. I did appreciate her in the begining but overtime as we drew apart I stopped apprecaiting all that she does/did.

Yes she was employed before full time. She's been getting her unemployment so far and I write her a check every month to cover the difference. Last time she separated she racked up a lot of CC debt which I'd helped her bring down to 0 after we started dating. I'm afraid she'll keep going into debt further or ask for alimony...sigh!

Regarding the driving etc. yes it's a full day for me but if not for that I wouldn't know how to fill my day and I'll mope around.

Mind, make me a list! I'm still waiting to see the summarized 180s that worked for you.

Last edited by StupidRomeo; 03/25/10 10:06 PM.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again