I am leaning towards telling H that I would be happy to help him out on the Wednesday and Thursday so that he can go ahead and firm up his travel plans. I would also tell H that trading these days for Monday and/or Tuesday is something I will have to think about and get back to him at a later date.
Sounds good to me! Be flexible, but don't give up things that are important to you.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.