DG my heart does out to you, I know how much this hurts. The frustration and feelings of helplessness over the situation. Pour it all out, that's what this board is for.
Look at the positive - his relationship with the OW is cracking. They may go back and forth before they break-up for good. All you have to do is to stay on your course and watch.
Patience - nothing can change in your sitch while the OW is in the picture.
More Patience - even when it's over with OW it will take time for him to get over it. The breakup may trigger the next MLC stage. He is still not finished.
I look at it this way in my sitch. It helps me to stay sane. May work for you too.
Look up kissak's tread. It took 3 years for her H to come to his senses. They are piecing now. You may want to read the past few comments on my tread as well.
Sending (((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
