so I've been doing the 180 thing and I don't really start conversations so lately she'll occasionally say things to me that are just conversational, she still makes dinner...but sort of yelled at me on IM at work the other day telling me "THAT is why I'm DONE....GET IT"....
I went to talk to a priest today and he pretty much told me if we have not been intimate in a very long time and she was making no attempt to work on the marriage with me that it's bad for the kids to be around her continued anger. He said that anger in the house is as bad as physical abuse. My 3 year old said to me "mommy doesn't like daddy" about a week ago, so the kids are aware that bad stuff is going on. So now I've got my parents telling me to leave and even priests are in on it.
What I'm trying to figure out is..if I'm doing the 180 and she never talks, what is the point? it's really just exposing and validating that there is no marriage left. She has refused therapy and retrouvaille so do I stay patient or just go ahead and end this thing?
