I really haven't been given and opportunity to pick a direction on Easter. My W hasn't brought the topic up since she briefly mentioned it about a month ago. My guess is she will avoid bringing it up with me and take the kids to her sisters to celebrate the holiday with her family. Her entire immediate family lives within a a 30 minute drive of us/me.
Having the party and egg hunt at our soon to be sold home amongst the neighbors who have always joined in on the hunt would be extremely awkward. I feel bad that I won't be able to join in with my kids as this will really be the first hunt where they'll understand what is happening.
If my stich was closer to yours currently I would be inclined to take your approach to it. I would be surprised if my W latest OM is far enough along with her that she would be comfortable bringing him around her family and more importantly my kids. I could be wrong.
By the way Vegas is a hop skip and jump away for me.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)