actually, IMHO, that's not what she meant. I think she was saying, you wouldn't want to go where she is going.
Right, when in fact, previously when she'd brought it up last year I told her OK we could work something out. I'd prefer to stay at a hotel instead of at her mom's and we could even go visit my sis in Canada on the way back if we could. I agree with what you're saying about always being positvie and confident in myself. I need to work on that. Waiting for those books still!
She knows about the driving but I think she takes it for granted. She doesn't ask if my drive/day was OK, if we were to go out for dinner she'd jump in the passenger seat of her car instead of asking if I wanted her to dive instead. She knows I was recently promoted and have even more responsibilities and starting up a new dept etc.
She's been unemployed since Jan 2009. Other arrangement? yes she could pick her up but then DD feels even worse when she has to switch from mommy to daddy on the same day. I'm OK with the current arrangement for now.
Sleeping wise I know what you mean but DD wakes up 2 or 3 times during the night and calls us. Her mom used to be the one to usually go and check on her and then come back. With how early I have to get up etc I can't do that - I'm a bad sleeper as is and I'm yawning quite a bit at work these days. I'm fine with sleeping there for now until she's comfortable with the idea that mom doesn't live there anymore. Also, she told me mommy sleeps with her in the same bed - which is even worse. W did mention to me that she'll use the kid's bed (shaped like a car) for her at a later time and DD will sleep with the other little girl when they start living their.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
