I was wondering about this. I mean, I feel much calmer now that I am more aware of my situaction not being a sure indication that my M is done for. But now that I have been much better wife, no pressure , very minimun nagging (really) and confronting life just a bit more relax, I find myself thinking, should I initiate sex now? or should I wait for him to approach me when he is ready? I am a bit scared now, because I don't want to send all my good efforts to hell by rushing him, but I am getting this nagging feeling that H is relieved I am not pressuring him anymore,and totally misundertanding my actions, thinking I am not being more respectful or considerate, so he won't fell threatened, BUT BECAUSE I just gave up and came to "my senses" about my "unreasonable" need for sex, so now we both agree that there was not reason to get all so worked up about it in the first place. I am being very honest here, because NOTHING is happening, and I mean NOTHING. I used to get a little "groping" before, ya' know , a very nice sort of way, but now, not even that! and I am not sure if I should say something, because every time I do, he tells me I am attacking him again! besides, I am not supposed to nag at him remember?
What am I supposed to do, how do I know my approach is even working? or if I am doing me in even more?
