CLV and Kemp, I am going the other direction on Easter, although my sitch is a little different. I am allowing the egg hunt at my house. I told the EX it was not the role of the OM (at least not yet) to spend special days with the kids during family type functions...that is still my role!! Suprisingly she agreed and went on to mention how wonderful it will be for all of us to spend Easter together. She still wants the best of both worlds; for us to be friends while she has another man in her life (I guess he is no longer the OM since we are now D...that is my new role now.
