It is true. I worked my a@$ off for this. I stayed true to my values, I stood my ground, and I was ready to end it if I needed to. And now, I have the hard task of opening myself back up.
I DO deserve a pat on the back don't I? And I am getting better at being content with validation from within rather than needing it from others, and especially not needing it from H the way I used to.
YAY me!
I think you make a good point that anyone following my sitch should make note of. The approach I am taking now applies to piecing with a remorseful partner. Without his remorse and recognition of what he has done to me, I would not be validating to this extent. And I would not be allowing myself to be this vulnerable.
But, you have been a huge help to me. I will never forget that!
Oh and BTW, I like how you described my busting the A as "crushing" the A. Woohoo! I am woman, hear me roar!
