sounds good. I don't think you need to be rude either, you can still be polite and this is best for him as well.

I remember when his bro was really sick and stopped drinking...hopefully he will listen to him. can't believe he told your mom too, did exh actually hear this? surely not?

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."