However, I also believe that when posting to someone, it is our resaponsibility to take the time to become aware of the entire sitiation, not just a glossing over. Especially if we are asked to stop by.
unfortunately not everyone has time to do this, so that is why I asked questions. I'm sorry if they are questions that are old, but I would like to help if DU wants me to.
again, I was not giving her advice, I was asking questions. As for mentioning DBing takes longer than 3 months. that is most generally true. my post was not to diminish the work she was doing, so I am sorry I did not write my words properly, as it seems some of you have misread my intentions.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
