Husband in Crisis - what do I do?

[S.T. _I Made It!]

fyi, I was only asking questions to better clarify the sitch. Most of the people on here are trying to save their M, and that's what I help people to do. However, obviously in a sitch like this where DU was having thoughts of suicide (and I definitely did not know that- again why I explained I wouldn't have time to read all of it, but did read the intro) things need to be done differently, and I always say people need to decide WHAT can they handle.

so, I am glad that you brought that to my attention because she definitely needs to get herself to a position of mental clarity and control.

so du, if you could still let me know the answers to the questions, I would still be interested to know.

DU, how are you feeling now too? do you feel you have progressed from that feeling of despair?

If you had ever experienced a MLC bomb and the months afterward of crap (and believe me, she has had a bomb that has lasted 3 months, not one day, and it has only been three months since it started), you would understand that a little better. Do you really think it would be beneficial for her to continue being bombed everytime they talk until it has been “long enough”? When would she start to heal herself

um, I'm not sure what you meant by this, as I do feel I was in crazy land for 3-4 months until I started becoming consistent and not allowing my H to mess with my head, my H was in an A, not mlc.

ST I would ask—

Please continue to support Destiny, in HER faith, in HER growth, in HER healing…

But please do not pass judgment, when you do NOT have all of the facts and haven’t taken the time to get them…

to clarify, there has been absolutely NO judgment passed on her. that is why I asked the questions to better understand her situation. I never told her to not go dark, but wanted to know why she choose that so soon.

support will always be given.