If she asks you out then you know she is really wanting it and that should jump your ego pretty high! I believe that you pulling back from her has aided in helping her to relax more. She doesn't feel pressure or the WAW confusion as much. I hope you will hang on, Stuck, and wait for her to ask you. Continue doing what you've been doing.
BTW, don't worry about that odd feeling of being detached b/c when you get a chance......you'll find those old feelings are still there.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
