"Wife you're right, it's not working out, we should go our separate ways, you should be with the other guy, in fact I hope you're happy with him, time for me to find someone else too, I hope it works out for you, no hard feelings, bye."
Okay. When do I drop this bomb? ASAP? Doesn't this just put the D in her court? If I am agreeing with her on the D, why maintain the separation? Help me understand the steps here?
